Hello Mr. Bartender


I thought about this the other day in the pub. The life of a bartender - how do you know that girls that are hitting on you are really hitting on you for you?

The Bartender Stereotype
So there is this sexy bartender stereotype - I'm sure that many girls would like to have quick fling with a bartender. So as a bartender, how do you know that the girl coming on to you isn't just into this fantasy?

Making herself look pretty
As a guy when a girl likes you - her spending time on making herself look good would be a clear indication that she likes you. But as a bartender - girls will be looking good when they go out anyway. Plus them touching up make up when going to the ladies room is not really a clear indicator either as this is normal pub/night club behavior for most girls. So the whole making herself look pretty thing completely cancelled out due to the environment.

Is is the alcohol talking?
How do you, as a bartender, know that her talking to you and smiling maybe even flirting - isn't just a result of her being a little bit tipsy?

Could you genuinely meet a girl, to date seriously, when she is a costumer and you are tending the bar?

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2 comments :

Raggy Paints said...

One of the things I noticed working behind a bar was that a lot of girls will flirt with you right up until they've got their free drinks and then they're gone... although maybe that says more about me?

Drizzle Kid said...

I don't know. I think it's just genuinely hard to meet a girl that's serious about you, if you are a bartender and meet her on the job.